March 11, 2005

Aku Masih Mampu Tersenyum

It is already 1.00 pm. I still have not received any call from my eldest daughter. Dah naik suspens dah aku ni ke tahap gelabah dah. I really hope no news is a good news. My younger sister had called me twice already. My two sisters' children and my hubby's niece are also waiting for their result. So i know that she is in the same state of mind like me.
My elder sister's daughter is well known for her good result. She got 7As in her PMR. My daughter and hubby's niece are equal (both got 5A in PMR). My younger sister's son is another matter. Noone is putting on hope for him. But I do know that he is intelligent just that he is really lazy to study. The mother (my younger sis) had told me he switched off his phone when she called him.

To all who have given me your kind words. I thank you very much. Biasalah kita sebagai ibu selalu risaukan anak2. I do realise that getting As in your exams are not the ultimate measure of one's success in life. But the reality of our current system and livelihood just could not be ignored. All I want for my daughters is the chance for them to be able to further their studies. I hope that what I have written have not sparked a misunderstanding that I only respect people with straight As. I am not a straight A person myself. I was locally educated and I am doing OK by any standard. I do not want them to have an inferiority complex and not enabling them to be independent and maybe even succeed in life. I will provide what I can, material and support, the rest is still up to them.

Cuma biasalah, ibu mana yang tak risau kan anak2..

A note for my eldest daughter,
Where are you girl? Jangan buat mama jadi tak tentu arah ni.. Dah berapa kali dah mama pi toilet hari dah ni..

Ya Allah, beri lah daku berita yang menggembirakan, Amin.

Alhamdullilah, latest news.
My daughter has got 3As in her SPM out of 10 subjects
My older sister's daughter 4As out of 12 subjects
The other two still unknown.

Insyaallah, she can still futher her studies. That's all I ask for

12 comments:

atiza said...

Alhamdullilah..my sister only managed to get 1A (suprisingly Principle of Accounts)..tell her its a job well done :)

Kak Teh said...

auntyN, alhamdulillah. Tak apa..dah berjaya. My niece pun dah dapat results. Mak dia tak sakit perut lagi.

DeLinn said...

Alhamdulillah AuntyN. At least better than no A kan. Cubalah cari-cari peluang untuk dia further studies. :)

Pastinya, AAK said...

Nak study senang kat Mesia laa ni byk kolej swasta dah taraf universiti kolej. IPTA pun bersepah, yang lain tu kalau nak excel kenalah usaha sendiri.

Perjalanan belum berakhir. Kadang lepas masuk universiti baru gemilang dan cemerlang. Apa citer Sufiah yg kerajaan Mesia dok sibuk taja dulu? Hehehe ...

AuntyN said...

Terimakasih untuk semua. Lega sikit dah. Lepas ni dah nak kena tengok kat mana boleh masuk pulak. Betul macam cakap Azhan dah banyak kolej sekarang kan. Camna pun kena perhati jugak lah apa yang sesuai dan apa yang termampu.

Javard said...

hello mak menakan....apa khabaq...
sorry for being too silent for a long time. love your blog. especially the belajar bahasa bid. it creates a niche to your blog. Congratulations on your daughter's result. alhamdulilah. berjaya dah tu...do remind her that from today, a new journey begins.. so where does she plan to study...what does she plan to do..mai masuk UKM ah...boleh abang javard dia ajaq..hahahahah..
anyway will be reading all your other posts....i like the way that you chart your journey so that one day your daughters will realize how special their mom is...great work auntyN...we shall catch up...
missing u..n regards to the family..
javard

CN said...

congrat congrat... klu rasa nk jd anak murid kiter within 3 years time, jgn lupa masuk UPM..heheheh

atenah said...

tahniah to the dotter, for being smart. tahniah to the mader for being caring

nuttygal109 said...

assalamualaikum auntyN.. nice to hear that you daughters are doing well. adik ina baru nak ambil SPM tahun nie. itu pun dia dah cuak2..

saya ucapkan tahniah sekali lagi.

MA said...

Tahniah kat AuntyN and Kak Long - lega noo...everytime anak kita melangkah a different passage of life - Mak yang jadi tak tentu arah...

miz_ct said...

AN.. untung kite kat Mesia ni.. tuition fees tak mahal.. masih mampu lagi nak bayar.. kalau rase susah pun, ade loan dari PTPTN etc.. insyaallah govt sediakan byk peluang utk anak2 Malaysia terus belajar..persoalannye hendak dgn tak hendak.. dan hargai ke tak peluang yg diberi..

Anonymous said...

Best regards from NY! »